Well, it's Friday, but I don't know about TGI... I guess it means that we can go tomorrow to see Cole, and that is a case of TG! It's been strange sitting around and not visiting him these two days. We miss him and hope that he misses us. It's such a strange set up to go, visit for two hours, tell him it's time for us to go, and then have him hop down and walk back to his room. It's tough to think that he's accustomed to us visiting in two-hour increments, but possibly not realizing that at some point we'll take him home. We don't know how/if they are attempting to communicate to him that we'll be taking him away from the orphanage at some point. So it seems that he's content to hang out with us for a little while and then head back to his little group of friends.
We spoke with some people that told us that probably none of these kids have ever been in a car to their recollection(which obviously means they've never been on a train or plane). So it'll be interesting when we finally ARE able to take him with us and get into a car, and then take a train, and then take three planes to get back to Ohio. Interesting might be an optimistic word.
Here are some more random thoughts so you can picture where we are: it's been "unseasonably warm" here for this time of year. The average has been about 5 degrees celsius which translates to somewhere in the mid 30's. Typically it's much colder we're told, so we're very pleased. There's no snow here which is fine by me. It has rained and been wet from time to time which makes a lot of dirt and mud. We don't see very much grass anywhere. Our apartment is clustered with other apartements in a sort of development and there are trees and dirt in the midst of those. The outsides of the apartments are not really cared for at all. They look dilapidated and run-down, but the insides are often quite nice. Ours is amazing inside, but it's scary walking the hallways. There are 60 steps up to our apartment according to Lori - 4th floor. That's a long ways when carrying large bottles of water (without gas). We did the math and realized that using one computer at this internet cafe for one hour only costs 5 grivna = $1.00. Not bad! There are a few American cars here and there, some Fords and Chevies, but it's rare. Almost every taxi that we've taken has been a Daewoo Lanos. There are some luxury cars like Lexus and BMW, but they are rare, as are SUV's. It finally occured to me that European cars are small b/c of the parking problem. You never know where someone is going to park or drive around here and lines on the road don't REALLY mean that you have to stay within them. It's a bit funny and a bit scary. Their version of Santa is Father Frost and he will come on January 7th. The entire city is decorated for New Year's instead of Christmas. Lenin Square (yes, that Lenin) is decked out and they appear to be setting up festival/carnival rides of sort for a big celebration. Brrr...
Yesterday we ventured out to go to the park (on the coldest day of our visit of course) b/c Emma was going stir-crazy. We played on their equivalent of the Fort Findlay Playground and was pretty nice. We then tried to find a bakery that someone recommended to us, but had no luck. The store fronts are sometimes deceiving, so we may have walked right past it. We did get more water (always need more it seems)at the store and discovered some great Ukrainian sweets, one of which was a giant swiss cake roll kind of thing. We definitely need to go get more of them!!
Our court date has been changed to 10:00 am on the 26th due to a paperwork thing. If our paperwork comes today instead of Monday, it's possible that we could be moved back to the 25th. Either way, please pray for that process. We don't know what to expect, but we look forward to seeing what God does. Thanks again for your prayers and your comments. Merry Christmas...almost!
Friday, December 22, 2006
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I'm so glad that you guys will get to see Cole tomorrow! He is soooo adorable!!
I'm horrible with time differences, do you guys know what time/day it will be for us Ohio people when it's 10 a.m. on the 26th for you? I'd love to pray for you when you're at your appointment and I'm sure others would, too. Even if it's in the middle of the night! :)
-Mandy
We were just talking about what the kids in the orphanage have been exposed to, or not. It seems so odd, considering the way things happen here, that those children are pretty much hanging out in the confines of the orphanage and have no clue about the world. We also talked about what the plane ride home would be like!!!!! We will pray for you on that one!!!!
On the exciting side of their lack of exposure is the idea that you are really giving Cole a life in the most detailed way to consider. Not only are you giving him a family and all that means, but a life to get out and see and explore and do! It would be wild to be able to get inside his little thought process to know what he is thinking and feeling about all this, especially as his new life begins to unfold for him. Overwhelming, uncertain, confusing...fun, safe, exciting, good. Emma will be such a gift as he will have a little person to help guide him through. She is going to be an awesome sister. Watching that relationship grow will be wonderful as well.
Lori looks so at peace in the picture with your children! It is a look of pure calm and feeling like this is really it! It is nice to see that in her eyes!
Enjoy your moments, your discoveries, the environment around you. Things are going to go very well for you over the next few days, I do honestly believe!!!!
What an exciting life Cole is about to be adopted into! Little does he know that there is such a huge world out there, and that he is going to be able to interact with it, all because you are going to be adopting him!! I am sure it will be an "interesting" and scary experience for him to come over here - but it will be exciting for him as well. You are going to be such a blessing for him, as he will be for you!! :-)
Yes, please keep us informed of times (and the time conversion), so we can pray during your appointment. Mandy can take middle of the night shifts and I will take days (just kidding)!
Praying for tomorrow's visit with your son!! :-) (That was exciting to type) :-)
We are so excited for your day to receive Cole as your son. Our whole family is praying for you also. The Marshall family will be here Christmas day and we'll have a special prayer for all of you. If Cole still has a cold when you fly home remember his little ears might hurt alot from flying. I've had that experience and it isn't pleasant. Can't wait to hold the precious little fellow. Things are moving along nicely here and Dick is going the extra mile in preparation for company. Love you guys! S & D
It's always so wonderful to hear from you and hear about all the differances...Cole's world now seems very small with no cars.. but i think ours is too... I hope you have a wonderful Christmas.. i'll be praying...
Great pictures! He's a natural Wright! Thanks so much for the updates! I'm praying for you guys! Merry Christmas!
-Love ya!
Becky and Murphy
Trevor,Lori, and Emma-
What great and "foreign" experiences you are having. We will be praying for you and for your new little one. Merry Christmas.
Dave and Miriam Vance
The pictures were adorable! We can't get over how much he looks like you guys!
Everyone at work has been asking about you Lori! You are missed!
I hope Cole is feeling better and we will continue to pray for your appointment on the 25th.
Good to hear about the playground. I was wondering what interesting things you're doing while you wait. Is there an Orthodox church in town? I'd love to experience worship in Ukraine. ...even if I didn't understand any Russian words but Bog...their very odd word for God, I think. What is it in Ukrainian, I wonder? I've heard that the Orthodox bow deeply each time they cross themselves in worship...and that usually they stand for the whole service...VERY contemporary!
Give Emma a hug for me.
Praying for God's best for you and for Cole.
Greg Creech
It's great to hear of your experiences. You will long remember your 'laundry days' in Ukraine. I've told several people about the $80 laundry bill. Can't believe the inequity of pricing there. We are praying for you in these exciting/anxious days, and will especially be praying on the 25th and 26th.
Leah and Don
I'm glad your Journey is going swell! Cole will be very happy to see your kind faces. At least I would! Tell Emma I sometimes get ansy just in school! Also tell her that she is a trooper and is one of the sweetest and bravest girls
I know! Have a great and cherrfull Chrsitmas!
Hey guys!
Missing you during this Christmas break, but what a wonderful gift for you to be with your son. Even though it is hard to be far away, especially at this time of year, know that you are in our thoughts and prayers all the time! Give each other big hugs from us and know that we hope you will be able to spend lots of time with Cole during Christmas and that you will find peace in a strange place and in a sometimes lonely situation! No one over on this side of the ocean has forgotten you guys this Christmas. We are still filled with joy over the blessing of your little guy and continue to check for updates daily! :-) You are all loved! Big hugs and kisses.
i'm so glad you guys are having a good time there. sorry i haven't kept up much, but i'm here now! your trip sounds amazing. i'm so excited for you! those pictures that you sent were adorable! cole looks like one of the little kids that you see in the paintings of a kid in the presence of santa claus. haha.
wow, i miss you guys so much! definitely praying for you too.
much love to you!
michelle
Where is everyone seeing pictures of Cole?
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